The New York Times
"Presbyterians
Approve Gay Marriage in Church Constitution"
This has
been a good week to be a Presbyterian. Once again the Presbyterian Church
(USA) made headlines, including the NY Times. On Tuesday, our neighbors
of the Palisades Presbytery in New Jersey voted to affirm the change to our
constitution which defines marriage as "a unique commitment between two people, traditionally a man and a woman, to love and support each other for the rest of their lives." Palisades was the 86th Presbytery (out of 171) to affirm, so it is now part of our Book of Order.
I am particularly proud because I was one of the commissioners from
Hudson River Presbytery to the 221st General Assembly where we approved this
language. I was there when the amendment was made to add the words,
"traditionally a man and a woman." That clause seemed to calm any
last minute jitters and it was passed by a wide margin.
It has been quite a
journey, but it feels like we can finally move beyond decades of conflict at
Presbytery and General Assembly gatherings. There are those who think the
denomination has lost its soul, but I think we have been wise and even inspired
as we have taken steps to remove a significant barrier to the inclusive justice
we proclaim. There is room in our church for people who are not yet
comfortable with gay pastors or same sex marriage, but more importantly there
is room and a warm welcome for those who face so much discrimination in life.
It's a proud day to be a
Presbyterian, and it is a proud day to be a part of PCMK. On Sunday our
Church School children packed over 100 lunches for the homeless of New York
City. One touching story is shared by our CE Director, Kathy Anderson.
While helping the younger children decorate the lunch bags one
child asked why their mommies didn't make lunches for these people.
When Kathy explained that these people are grown ups who don't have
mommies around, the child said she wanted to give lots of hugs through her lunch
bag. She proceeded to completely cover it in X's and O's (hugs and
kisses).
So, I think you can see
why I am proud to be a "P", especially since it is part of PCMK!